DELAY IN MARRIAGES
DELAY IN MARRIAGE.
Some girls' mentality is very low just like low battery mode.
You will hear them saying "I don't want to marry yet,I'm still young"... "I don't even want to hear anything about marriage now I'm still enjoying my life"...
Girls at the age of 18-24 always attract serious men who are fully ready to get married, but at this age, most of our girls never wish to hear anything about marriage... You will hear them saying "who marriage eep?, who cares about marriage?"..... But this girls will be having serious sexual relationships with boys of their age... I mean serious sexual relationships because at this age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them but they will prefer those boys to the serious men.. They are still young to marry but they're not young to have sexual intercourse with boys... When you even ask them :
"why are you a small girl having sex like this?...You will hear her asking you
"Who is a small girl? Do you even know what I know? Are you expecting me not to be having sex at this my age?
Do u want to kill me? And besides, what is your own problem with my own life? Abeg, pack well".
At the age of 25-27, parents will start asking them how far? Don't you have any one yet? Are you not planning to get married? Your mates are getting married? Or don't you know how old you are?... But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters not knowing that inside is finished/spoilt.... With all this questions from her parent, she will start thinking and asking herself questions like:
"My mates are getting married? Does it mean I'm old enough to marry? Hmmm but how should I go about it?
Those my boyfriends are not serious types... They're not even ready to marry yet.. Well, God knows the best I believe in God".
My sister, Did you just mention God?... Hmm!!!
At the age of 27-30... They will now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex with again... They will start looking for serious relationships that will lead to marriage... But the funniest thing is that, at this age of 30 no men will be asking their hands in marriage... Though they will see men but those men will only want to date them and not marriage... Then you will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who isn't ready to marry them... No sngle man at the age of 30-35 will like to marry a lady of 30-35 too instead they will be looking for girls of 20-25 to marry and that is why you will see some men going back to their village to find young girls to marry when they see that those young girls in the city are not serious about marriage and those that are serious are too old for them.
At the age of 30-35, if you ask her why are you not married yet at this your age? it's getting too late... You will hear her asking you some silly questions like... "Are you God? Or do you want to marry me? Single at 30 or 35
Is it a crime? Did I see who will marry me and I didn't marry? God knows the best pls".
At this age of 30-35 they will start going to Churches/Mosques like never before... They will now be faking serious types.. Her name will now change from Lizzy to Sis in Christ...from Topzy to Maryam.
At this age, when you ask her out for dating you will hear her saying "My brother, I'm not like them... I'm looking for husband not boyfriend for dating, if you truly love me, go and see my parent for marriage
I can't do anything without asking for my parent's permission. But when she was 18-24 years,she was doing everything without her parent's consent..what an Irony !
Dear ladies, do you even know that no man want old version again? Everyone is looking for latest version. You can't expect a young man of 30yrs to marry you of 30yrs as his house wife... Men that will be interested to marry you will be men of 40 and above, and mind you, those men are married with kids except you want to be their second or third wife and It's obvious that most ladies will not want to be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time... There's no lady looking for husband presently that didn't see anyone who wanted to marry her when she was 18-24 years but by then, they were not serious because they weren't looking for husband but sex.
Let's assume you started having sex at the age of 16-20.
Now you're 30years old... My sister can you count how many times you've had sex? Well, let's forget about that because I know you won't like that part at all.
But let me tell you, everything is not about prayer.
God who created you has made a plan for you but when you by yourself change the plan or miss the road, you will now be shouting God where are you?.. When God was waiting for you and ready to accept your prayers, where were? You were there doing Shakara, enjoying your life and taking men for granted.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies nowadays? Does it mean no men again? You will see that the old are there not getting married why the young ones are getting married.
You as an elderly or senior sister is still unmarried and your younger or junior sisters are getting married.... You will now be asking God some stupid questions like "God why me? Am I not your servant again? Do you want me to kill myself before you know what to do?"... After asking God those questions, you will now go to your parent and be asking them some nonsense questions like "Mum what are you doing about my situation? Don't you want me to get married? Mum you need to do something ooh because I will commit suicide ooh."..... But why are you telling your mum all these? When you were committing sins ,having sex and rejecting serious men, did you tell your mum anything?
Dear sister, there is time for everything. Don't let your time pass over you before running after it.
They say grab your copy before it's too late... Don't be too selective... Do not be deceived by the material world. Nobody knows tomorrow,,, A poor man today may be a rich & wealthy man tomorrow.
I pray that God showers his mercy and provides a better man (husband) for you ... Amen.
Some girls' mentality is very low just like low battery mode.
You will hear them saying "I don't want to marry yet,I'm still young"... "I don't even want to hear anything about marriage now I'm still enjoying my life"...
Girls at the age of 18-24 always attract serious men who are fully ready to get married, but at this age, most of our girls never wish to hear anything about marriage... You will hear them saying "who marriage eep?, who cares about marriage?"..... But this girls will be having serious sexual relationships with boys of their age... I mean serious sexual relationships because at this age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them but they will prefer those boys to the serious men.. They are still young to marry but they're not young to have sexual intercourse with boys... When you even ask them :
"why are you a small girl having sex like this?...You will hear her asking you
"Who is a small girl? Do you even know what I know? Are you expecting me not to be having sex at this my age?
Do u want to kill me? And besides, what is your own problem with my own life? Abeg, pack well".
At the age of 25-27, parents will start asking them how far? Don't you have any one yet? Are you not planning to get married? Your mates are getting married? Or don't you know how old you are?... But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters not knowing that inside is finished/spoilt.... With all this questions from her parent, she will start thinking and asking herself questions like:
"My mates are getting married? Does it mean I'm old enough to marry? Hmmm but how should I go about it?
Those my boyfriends are not serious types... They're not even ready to marry yet.. Well, God knows the best I believe in God".
My sister, Did you just mention God?... Hmm!!!
At the age of 27-30... They will now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex with again... They will start looking for serious relationships that will lead to marriage... But the funniest thing is that, at this age of 30 no men will be asking their hands in marriage... Though they will see men but those men will only want to date them and not marriage... Then you will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who isn't ready to marry them... No sngle man at the age of 30-35 will like to marry a lady of 30-35 too instead they will be looking for girls of 20-25 to marry and that is why you will see some men going back to their village to find young girls to marry when they see that those young girls in the city are not serious about marriage and those that are serious are too old for them.
At the age of 30-35, if you ask her why are you not married yet at this your age? it's getting too late... You will hear her asking you some silly questions like... "Are you God? Or do you want to marry me? Single at 30 or 35
Is it a crime? Did I see who will marry me and I didn't marry? God knows the best pls".
At this age of 30-35 they will start going to Churches/Mosques like never before... They will now be faking serious types.. Her name will now change from Lizzy to Sis in Christ...from Topzy to Maryam.
At this age, when you ask her out for dating you will hear her saying "My brother, I'm not like them... I'm looking for husband not boyfriend for dating, if you truly love me, go and see my parent for marriage
I can't do anything without asking for my parent's permission. But when she was 18-24 years,she was doing everything without her parent's consent..what an Irony !
Dear ladies, do you even know that no man want old version again? Everyone is looking for latest version. You can't expect a young man of 30yrs to marry you of 30yrs as his house wife... Men that will be interested to marry you will be men of 40 and above, and mind you, those men are married with kids except you want to be their second or third wife and It's obvious that most ladies will not want to be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time... There's no lady looking for husband presently that didn't see anyone who wanted to marry her when she was 18-24 years but by then, they were not serious because they weren't looking for husband but sex.
Let's assume you started having sex at the age of 16-20.
Now you're 30years old... My sister can you count how many times you've had sex? Well, let's forget about that because I know you won't like that part at all.
But let me tell you, everything is not about prayer.
God who created you has made a plan for you but when you by yourself change the plan or miss the road, you will now be shouting God where are you?.. When God was waiting for you and ready to accept your prayers, where were? You were there doing Shakara, enjoying your life and taking men for granted.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies nowadays? Does it mean no men again? You will see that the old are there not getting married why the young ones are getting married.
You as an elderly or senior sister is still unmarried and your younger or junior sisters are getting married.... You will now be asking God some stupid questions like "God why me? Am I not your servant again? Do you want me to kill myself before you know what to do?"... After asking God those questions, you will now go to your parent and be asking them some nonsense questions like "Mum what are you doing about my situation? Don't you want me to get married? Mum you need to do something ooh because I will commit suicide ooh."..... But why are you telling your mum all these? When you were committing sins ,having sex and rejecting serious men, did you tell your mum anything?
Dear sister, there is time for everything. Don't let your time pass over you before running after it.
They say grab your copy before it's too late... Don't be too selective... Do not be deceived by the material world. Nobody knows tomorrow,,, A poor man today may be a rich & wealthy man tomorrow.
I pray that God showers his mercy and provides a better man (husband) for you ... Amen.
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